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Red Deer Advocate
February 21, 2007
Coach first lady
of the lanes.
By CARL HAHN
LIFE staff
INNISFAIL - Anyone who
thinks you need fingers to bowl apparently needs a lesson in
open-mindedness.
The girl who was born
with no fingers on one hand is one of bowling coach Maaike van Soeren's
favourite memories.
The girl had been told
by someone else that she could never learn to bowl, but she went to van
Soeren to see if there was any hope.

I said, “Oh, we will,
lady. And you'll be a good bowler.”
They worked together
for three years, until the girl's family moved away. And at the end of every
bowling season, the girl's mother would send in flowers for van Soeren, for
making her daughter believe she really was worth coaching, and could do the
things everyone else does.
"Her mom was so happy.”
Van Soeren has been a
coach with the Master Bowlers Association for 28 years, cruising the lanes
of Innisfail Bowling Lanes for that entire time. She coaches youth bowlers
at the Innisfail lanes Mondays and Tuesdays after school.
The 73-year-old bowls
with the 55-plus group Wednesday mornings and assists the seniors who need a
hand as well. That's in addition to all the evenings she spends bowling in
the masters league herself.
"I coach twice a week
and I bowl four times a week," she says. "My husband said I'm here all the
time. My husband said, they should get a bed for You."
She hasn't forgotten
what it was like to be clueless about bowling, though. About 35 years ago a
neighbour twisted van Soeren's arm into filling a vacant spot on her ladies
team.
I said, “I don't know
nothing about bowling,” and she said, “Oh, you go along and I will show
you.” But it didn't really work out that well.
A few years later she
decided to take a coaching clinic, to help improve her style. It was a
difficult experience. “They told me I was the poorest bowler in the
whole bunch that was taking the course.”
An older fellow had
sympathy, though, and told her she had potential. She and her husband had a
dairy farm then, so she had strong hands that would set her above other
women on the lanes.
After the course was
over, he took her aside and coached her. He showed her how to pace out the
right place to start her run, and how to develop a routine to ensure
consistent rolling.
She proved his faith,
joining the Master Bowlers Association of Alberta in 1979. She's been to
nationals with the association twice.
"At one time my average
was as high as 280."
Van Soeren's had some
injuries since then that have affected her game, but can still break the
300 mark from time to time. As a diabetic she likes to keep bowling - and
curling as well - to keep herself active and burn off calories. She says her
doctor told her a single game is worth 176 calories.
The association
requires its members to spend time coaching kids, but van Soeren puts in
more time than the association requires. Staff at the Innisfail lanes
confirm she's always got time for the kids.
“We have sometimes
difficult kids to work with, and I have no problem to slow them down or do
anything else,” she says.
After 28 years of
coaching she has no intention of letting up. There's no calculating how
many kids she's influenced.
"There's quite a few
kids here I coached their parents."
Dayton Cossey, 17, is
one of them. Van Soeren recalls his mom Becky was one of her early students.
Cossey started out with
a different coach, so van Soeren didn't coach him until he moved up a
level. But in his first year with van Soeren his average score improved 50
points. He rolls a 201 now.
“She's a really good
coach. She helped me a lot,” he says.
Dallas Griffin, 18, is
in his final year of youth bowling, and van Soeren was there the first time
he picked up a bowling ball. He still goes back to her when his 212 average
is in jeopardy.
“Even if she's coaching
someone else and I struggle I just talk to her.”
A reminder of the basic
routines helps him retrieve his consistency.
“And it works,” he
says. “She's a pretty good coach.”
Even the adults have
benefited - when they're willing. Van Soeren recalls one man who sent his
wife over to ask questions, because he didn't want to take directions from a
woman. The coach refused, saying the man would just have to ask for
himself.
“About two months
later, he was so bad, he finally come over,” she recalls. “I said, Sure, I
will teach you, so long as you will listen and try to do what I tell you.
Now he's one of our better bowlers.”
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